Many Belgians prefer to avoid uncertainty, which is why they like to schedule their social life with concrete plans. However, they often feel uncomfortable starting conversations with strangers, especially when there is no clear goal. Belgians communicate more directly than many other people. Respect is an important value in communication, but honesty and sincerity are also important to Belgians. It is not considered rude to disagree with someone (even if that person is older), as long as someone does so politely.
When Belgians speak up, they tend to be direct and even blunt with criticism. Belgians prefer direct emotional responses, expressing their feelings in gestures, tone of voice, verbal interaction, and humor. They generally believe it is good to show emotions, so others can understand their true feelings. They appreciate it when others are open and if they ask for an opinion, they expect an honest response.
In Belgian culture, due to the pressure of collective agreement, consensus will usually be achieved. As a result, an initial “yes” may later become a “no”, or vice versa. Belgians tend to believe in security and stability and are low risk-takers. Most Belgians are hard workers, big “savers for later,” and are more tacticians than strategists.
Belgians tend to be good listeners, observers, and reflectors, and often will not have the urge to speak up. Interpersonal communication is accomplished by inquiring about family wellbeing and engaging in small talk.
